Children's parties are first and foremost about having fun, but they are also a good opportunity to teach kids about kid party etiquette. They teach your child to be a good host and get them on their way to a lifetime of gatherings and social interactions.

Before the party actually begins, or probably the day before, you'll want to go over some 'manners rules' with your child. They need to know what's expected of them and how they should act.

• Manners really start with the invitations. You child should obviously invite his/her best friends, but they should also think about inviting anyone who may feel left out if uninvited. In addition, your child really shouldn't talk about the party to anyone or in front of anyone that wasn't invited.

• Show your child how they should greet each guest as they arrive.

• You should try to make the point to your child that since they are the host, it is largely their responsibility to follow up with each guest to make sure that they are having a good time.

• Make sure the child understands that it's important to thank each guest as they leave.

• Try to let each guest win at least one prize... but don't make it too obvious. Your child should understand that everyone goes home with a prize and why (so everyone has a good time and doesn't get their feelings hurt).

• Explain that they should accept each child's gift with a smile and be gracious -- even if they don't like the gift or they already own one just like it. All gifts receive a thank you.

• Don't forget the thank you notes... this is especially important if guests brought gifts, but is also a nice touch to say thank you for coming even if no gifts were exchanged.

One final point... kids really learn their manners from the adults in their lives. Address your own party guests, friends, spouse, and your children with the appropriate manners and your children will easily learn to do the same.